Five Ways to Rediscover Your Writing Joy

By Greer Macallister  |  March 6, 2023  | 

You started writing because you loved writing, right? The power to make something from nothing, to create, to bring characters and events into being and take readers along with you on an emotional journey. It was heady. Powerful. Do you remember that feeling?

Now: years later, do you still have that feeling? Every time you write? Even sometimes? For many of us, even though it started out so fun, the act of writing can become downright unpleasant. It’s work. Some days that work feels like a grind. Especially if you’ve professionalized it, entered the world of publishing and contracts and deadlines, want to can get smothered under have to.

There’s nothing wrong with professionalizing your writing. If you want to write productively, most of us need to do that to some degree. We have to sit down to write on days that we don’t feel like it, produce text that doesn’t make our heart sing. Writing is work, and sometimes it’ll feel like work.

But that doesn’t mean it can’t sometimes feel like play, too.

Here are five what-if questions you can ask yourself that might help bring joy back into your writing process. Not all of these will likely work for you; in writing, one size pretty much never fits all. But you deserve a little joy, no matter where you are in your writing process or career. So let’s take a shot at having some fun.

What if you didn’t write today? If you have a daily writing process, you’re likely committed to it, which is great. When I’m under a tight deadline, I set myself a daily writing goal. But sometimes, when I sit down to write, I ask myself this question. Ugh, I don’t want to write. So… what if I didn’t? Much of the time, the reminder of what I’m working toward is enough to re-energize me. If I didn’t write today, I’d have to write more tomorrow, so I’m better off putting words down now — I chose this pace on purpose. Sometimes the question reminds me that writing is one of the activities I enjoy most in my life, and it’s a reward, not a punishment. And yes, sometimes asking the question leads to not writing that day, and that’s fine too. Some days are like that! So far it hasn’t caused me major career trauma!

What if you wrote out of order? I am a lifelong draft-in-whatever-order writer, but a lot of people aren’t. And your process is your process; I respect that. But… if you haven’t tried jumping ahead, maybe give it a shot. If you’re ground to a halt on Chapter 3 and the joy is gone, maybe try writing another scene you know you need, no matter where in the manuscript it’ll end up. What about the big emotional climax? What about–gasp–the ending? Maybe it works for you, maybe it doesn’t, but you’ll never know until you try.

What if you make a bad choice? The fear of going down the wrong path in your writing can be paralyzing. So if you’re working on a scene and it feels like torture, go ahead and mess it up. Make bad choices over and over on purpose. Write the clunky prose. Let your characters act completely out of character. Write the dialogue where people say what they’re thinking in the baldest, starkest terms. Throw totally out of left field twists (guy with a gun! long-lost baby! evil twin! surprise earthquake!) in there. You can delete it tomorrow, but today, take joy in making the whole thing all wrong.

What if productivity is joy? A lot of suggestions for making your writing fun involve doing exercises that aren’t intended to directly move your manuscript forward (like, well, the suggestion I just made two sentences ago.) But that may not be for you. For some of us, part of our joy in writing comes from making measurable progress. I find that the easiest goal to set is word count, because it’s purely quantitative and easily measured. Maybe I say, OK, I’m writing 500 words, and then I do. Are those words bad? Sure, they might be! But they exist, which makes them superior to words that don’t! Set yourself a modest goal and achieve it, and see how that makes you feel.

What if you wrote somewhere you’ve never written before? You can shake it up by writing something different, as we’ve covered, but you could also try writing somewhere different. Again, this may or may not work for you, but it’s probably worth a try. If you’re stuck at home and you’re usually a dining room table writer, how about the couch? Bed? Facing the room instead of the window, or the window instead of the room? If you’ve got more flexibility, a coffee shop? Outdoors? In your car (driver’s seat or passenger side)? Some writers, get this, type their work into their phones on the subway or bus. Writing can happen anywhere. See where else it might happen for you.

Q: What other recommendations do you have for fellow writers who want to recapture joy in their writing process?

 

7 Comments

  1. Christine on March 6, 2023 at 11:24 am

    Wow, these are terrific suggestions! I love how they shake us out of a writing rut, while encouraging forward momentum in ways we might not have considered. A timely post… I’ve found that when I focus too much on the big goal of “finishing,” it seems overwhelming, but when I focus too intently on the daily process (writing for X hours or X words), I can lose sight of the reason I’m writing. So I try to find the right blend–and you’ve provided rich opportunities for reflection in that area. Thank you!

    As far as recommendations, I wish I had more–but sometimes on the days I don’t really feel like writing, I pick a random fun/romantic/terrifying scene from somewhere later in the book and let the muse loose to play. The results often surprise me.



  2. Kristan Hoffman on March 6, 2023 at 1:09 pm

    Moving to a new place to work — even just a different spot within my own home — is often a huge help to me. Also switching from computer to pen & paper, or vice versa. Sometimes we just need to get out of our mental ruts (which we often don’t even realize we’re in, at least in my experience).



  3. J. R. Armstrong on March 6, 2023 at 4:00 pm

    I love these ideas and have done a few of them. I’ve left the confines of home to write outside in my woods, at a coffee shop and next up–the winery! (We’ll see how much I get done there!) I do a lot of writing that is not in order. I wake up with an idea, it doesn’t matter where it goes in the story, I write it down. It always fits in eventually. Making a bad choice by having a loud-mouthed main character? Boy, I got a lot off my chest and felt so much better. Thank you for your article.



  4. Leslie Budewitz on March 6, 2023 at 4:09 pm

    You’re singing my tune, Greer. When what you’re doing isn’t working, do something different! (Amazing how hard it is to remember that sometimes!)



  5. Rod Brandon on March 6, 2023 at 4:21 pm

    Your suggestions are excellent, Greer, and I have used all at one time or another to get back the “joy.” But what works best for me to try some different form than what I usually do. Mostly I write prose fiction by the hour. When I don’t enjoy doing that, I switch to writing poetry. Any kind. And soon the joy returns.



  6. Vijaya on March 6, 2023 at 7:10 pm

    Thank you for these great ideas, Greer, some I use myself, like switching up how or where I write. One thing that always works is reading great books! They remind me that there are some stories that only I can write.



  7. Deborah Gray on March 6, 2023 at 9:58 pm

    These are all great suggestions, Greer. Sometimes, I just need a push and that comes with joining a free Zoom writing group that is doing nothing more than writing alongside me. Shut Up and Write, on Meetup, really works for me. They have groups all over the world and at virtually any time that suits your schedule, So I can join a group in Sonoma, CA or Canberra, Australia and be writing with others who are regulars and become familiar to me too. Each group is loosely hosted, we spend 15 minutes checking in with each other at the beginning, write for an hour and then check back with progress at the end. This sense of community and shared purpose is actually the motivation I need at times to jumpstart my writing when I can’t seem to do it for myself. The joy returns each time.